Why Anxiety and Eating Disorders Often Go Hand-in-Hand — and How Online Therapy in Ottawa Ontario Can Help
- Mackenzie Fournier

- 5 days ago
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Anxiety and eating disorders often show up together — and when they do, the combination can feel overwhelming. The anxious part of you might crave control, certainty, or perfection. The eating disorder part may promise temporary relief from those feelings, only to deepen the stress and self-criticism over time.
If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many people across Ontario experience both anxiety and disordered eating, and it can be incredibly hard to untangle one from the other.
The good news is that support is available — and online therapy from Ottawa makes it easier than ever to access specialized help anywhere in Ontario.
The Connection Between Anxiety and Eating Disorders
Anxiety and eating disorders share a deep connection rooted in the need for control, predictability, and safety. For many people, managing food, exercise, or body image becomes a way to cope with the uncertainty that anxiety brings.
Over time, though, this attempt to manage anxiety through control often backfires. Strict food rules, compulsive routines, or self-criticism can amplify anxiety rather than ease it, creating a painful cycle of stress, guilt, and overwhelm.
In therapy, one of the first steps is understanding that both anxiety and disordered eating are protective responses — ways your mind and body have tried to help you cope. Once that’s understood, healing can begin from a place of curiosity, not shame.
Signs You Might Be Struggling with Both
While every experience is unique, these are common signs that anxiety and disordered eating may be connected:
Persistent worry about food, body, or weight
Feeling anxious or guilty before and after meals
Difficulty relaxing or feeling “safe” when routines change
Obsessive thinking about calories, exercise, or “good” vs. “bad” foods
Fear of judgment, failure, or loss of control
Perfectionism or self-criticism that never feels satisfied
Physical symptoms like racing heart, stomach tension, or restlessness
When anxiety and eating concerns overlap, therapy can help you separate who you are from what your anxiety tells you — and begin to rebuild trust with your body and emotions.
How Online Therapy Helps — Wherever You Are in Ontario
Online therapy or virtual counselling allows people across Ontario to access qualified, specialized therapists without barriers like distance, transportation, or scheduling conflicts. Whether you’re in Ottawa, Toronto, London, Kingston, or Northern Ontario, you can connect with support that fits your life.
Many clients find that online therapy feels less intimidating and more flexible, helping them engage more consistently in their healing process.
Through secure video sessions, clients can explore their thoughts and feelings in real time — sometimes even practicing new coping strategies within the same environments that trigger their anxiety or eating concerns.
Research also shows that online CBT and other evidence-based therapies can be just as effective as in-person sessions for anxiety and eating disorders. What matters most is the relationship you build with your therapist — and the space you create together for healing.
What Therapy for Anxiety and Eating Disorders Can Help You Work On
Therapy for anxiety and eating disorders focuses on helping you understand your patterns, build tools for change, and reconnect with your values and self-worth. This often includes:
Identifying triggers and underlying fears that contribute to anxiety and disordered eating
Challenging unhelpful thought patterns through CBT, CBT-E, and emotion-focused approaches
Building emotional regulation and self-compassion using mindfulness and somatic awareness
Improving body image and reducing avoidance behaviours
Reconnecting with joy and purpose beyond food and appearance
The goal isn’t simply to “eat normally” or “feel less anxious.” It’s to create a life that feels balanced, meaningful, and grounded — where food and body thoughts no longer take up so much mental energy.
Why Working with a Specialist Matters
Eating disorders and anxiety are complex, and they require a specialized, trauma-informed approach. Working with a therapist who understands both ensures therapy moves at a pace that feels safe — avoiding the “all-or-nothing” mindset that often fuels both struggles.
At Modern Mind Therapy, sessions are compassionate, collaborative, and focused on helping you develop self-understanding, not judgment. Together, we’ll explore what’s driving your patterns and practice curiosity instead of criticism.
Support from Ottawa, Accessible Across Ontario
Modern Mind Therapy, based in Ottawa, offers virtual therapy sessions across Ontario for individuals navigating anxiety, eating disorders, disordered eating, and body image concerns.
Whether you’re a student managing academic stress and food anxiety, a professional struggling with perfectionism, or someone simply ready to build a more peaceful relationship with yourself — online therapy can help you move forward.
From the quiet corners of Ottawa to the busy streets of Toronto, you can access care that meets you where you are — literally and emotionally.
Taking the Next Step
Healing from anxiety and eating struggles takes courage — and you don’t have to do it alone. Online therapy offers a safe, flexible way to begin that process, wherever you are in Ontario.
If you’re ready to learn more, book a free consultation to see if therapy might be a fit. Together, we can help you build a calmer relationship with food, body, and self — one rooted in compassion, not control.
References
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National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA). (2022). Anxiety disorders and eating disorders.




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